September 26, 2017

Rules for a happy husband

Every woman wants a happy husband, and here are six tips to help you get one. If you follow this advice, and implement it into your daily life, you will find you are happy and fulfilled as a result.

1. Be careful not to contradict him in front of others. Doing so can embarrass him. It can cause others to lose respect for him. It can cause him to lose respect for himself. It is especially important to remember this in front of your children, his boss, coworkers etc. Respect is very important to men, and you do not want to be the cause of your spouse not being respected as much.

2. In addiction to not contradicting him in front of others, do not criticize him in front of others. A little bit of constructive criticism may not seem like a big deal, but it can be. Instead, wait until you are in private to share your views in a loving and helpful manner. When a man is criticized in front of others, it can cause embarrassment and resentment. It can also lead to lower self esteem, which is never a desirable outcome.

3. Be his advocate. If you want a happy spouse, defend him and be his advocate. Never let anyone disrespect him in front of you. If someone has something hurtful to say, be the first one to jump to his defense, as snide remarks can really impact a person, especially if said in front of your spouse, and they do not defend you. Your husband should be the most important person in your life, which means you should be their biggest defender and cheerleader. Do not let someone get away with belittling or disrespecting them.

4. One of the best ways to have a happy spouse is to be happy yourself. Learn how to love yourself, and not let your personal insecurities get in the way of your relationship, your dreams, and your hopes for the future. If you can let some of those insecurities go, and just like yourself anyway, they will worry less about you, and find your company far more pleasant.

5. Show them lots of love and pamper them. A great way to have a happy husband is to show them just a little extra attention and consideration. Make a big deal out of when they get home. Make their favorite meals just because, and surprise them with sweet things from time to time for no reason at al. If they are sick, baby them and wait on them hand and foot. Basically, the more you pamper them and include them in your thoughts and actions, the more loved they will feel, and the happier they will be as a result.

6. Show you are interested in him and what he has to say. You can do this by making direct eye contact when talking. You can shut off distractions and listen to what he has to say, etc. Show your interest, and never prioritize something like a book, or television over them.

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